Welcome to White Cane Connections.

My name is Sue Boman. Yes, that’s me in the picture posted here. I have called this blog White Cane Connections because I am one of the many people who use a white cane. I began this blog because I wanted to write about a project I undertook in 2012. The plan was to complete a series of walks using my white cane. Between March and September, I walked in 82 different locations across Canada. So, the blog begins by telling of my experiences and the many people I met along the way.

While this particular journey has now been completed, I find that I still have much to write about. I am continuing to make new white cane connections, and so for the time being I will continue to add regular posts to this blog. I am hoping that you will be a partner in the journey.

Sue


Thursday, 19 September 2013

September 19 - Lost at Sea


In my last post, I wrote how I became lost in a campground. Today’s story is about Lyle, with a postscript that includes a lesson for me.

The Sunshine Coast is connected to the mainland by the BC Ferry system. By Thursday, Lyle and I had already taken several ferry trips and I was feeling comfortable enough to leave my white cane in the car for the forty minute trip between Langdale and Horseshoe Bay. We climbed the fifteen stairs from the car deck to the main deck and then another fifteen stairs to the sun deck. It was a beautiful day but Lyle decided that he should return to the car, get our iPad and check email. He left me enjoying the sun and the cool breeze which drifted across the water.

Lyle returned down the two flights of stairs, retrieved the iPad and meandered around the ship looking for a good Internet connection. He became engrossed in his task and it was a surprise when he heard the loudspeaker announcement that the ship would soon be docking and passengers were to return to their vehicles.  Lyle shut down the computer and hurried back to the sun deck.  Other passengers were making their way downstairs, but there was no sign of me.  He wondered if I had decided to go to the ladies washroom, so he made his way there and waited outside the door. I didn’t come out.  Perhaps, he thought, I might have asked someone to assist me back to the car deck, so he rushed back to our vehicle.  I wasn’t there either.  By now he was getting worried.  He was sure that I was lost and he decided that he should contact one of the crew.

Now, you might be wondering what I was doing while all this was going on.  Naturally, I had no idea of Lyle’s frantic search.  Where was I? Well, I was precisely where Lyle had left me.  Our arrangement should we ever become separated, is that I should stay put, and Lyle should find me.  Even when the other passengers left the sun deck and I was there alone, I remained exactly where I was.  It was not until I heard another loudspeaker announcement that I decided to move.

The loudspeaker called my name and asked that I make myself known to any crew member.  By this time, not only were there no passengers on the sun deck, there were no crew members either.  There was nobody.  I knew that I had to make a move.  I found the door to the stairs, glad that I had counted them on the way up, and made my way to the main deck.  There was still nobody in my range of vision so I began calling out.

“It’s me,” I  shouted.  “Can anyone hear me?  Are there any crew about who can hear me?”

The story does have a happy ending.  One of the crew heard me, and took me to where Lyle was waiting with one of the stewards.  Just in time, as it turned out.  Lyle had just been informed that he would need to move the car without me and that there would then be a search for me and I would be brought off as a foot passenger.  Lyle and I made it back to the car deck just as the line of vehicles began to move.

So, here is the explanation. The large BC Ferry was of a mirror image design back and front.  Lyle left me   on a series of benches in front of a large ship’s funnel. He didn’t realize that at the other end of the ship there was also a series of benches in front of a large funnel.  In his meanderings to find the Internet connection, he had become disoriented, confusing the back of the ship with the front.

Now for the postscript.  When Lyle went to report my mysterious disappearance to the crew, he had to say that I was blind but that I wasn’t using my white cane.  For me, the lesson was the same.  When we were separated, I didn’t have my cane with me.  If I had, I am sure that my trip down the stairs might have been a lot less panicky. Possibly too, I might have been easier to spot when people were looking for me.  Needless to say, there are no pictures with this post.

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