In the Christian Church, the messages
leading up to Christmas are those of peace, hope, joy and love. I wish all of
those to you. I would also like to wish you a message of a different kind for
the New Year. I know that making New Year’s resolutions is not everyone’s cup
of tea, but in my mind it is a good spot on the time line to set about setting
some personal goals.
The other day I was chatting with my
friend, Norma. We talked about how difficult it is to maintain self-confidence
when challenges seem to be overwhelming. Of course, we were speaking of
decreasing sight, but the same holds true for other challenges as well – physical
and emotional. This past year hasn’t been an easy one for me and I’m afraid
that I have slipped away from some things that previously I used to accomplish independently.
I am very fortunate to have had Lyle by my side to boost me through these
darker spells. Now, I need to once again build up my confidence and I know that
the best way for me to do this is by taking baby steps. I need to set some
personal goals and chip away at them.
This is what I wish for each of you. I am
actually writing this on one of the best days of the year – December 21. Yes,
it is mid-winter but it is also the shortest day of the year and from here on
things can only get better and brighter. The days are going to be longer, but at
first this will only be in very tiny increments. We won’t see big changes yet.
That is also the way it might be for your personal goals. Tomorrow you might
walk to the end of the block without a guide but next month you might be taking
a stroll around the neighbourhood. If today you might need assistance to catch
the bus or train downtown, by June you could possibly be travelling alone.
It is up to each one of us to improve the
quality of our lives by taking those baby steps forward and reaching towards
the larger goal. I would love to hear how you are doing. If you find it too
hard to comment on this blog, you can always let me know by email.
As a side note – when I first started
writing on this blog, I wasn’t sure if anyone would read it. That was back in
2012. Now as we approach 2016, I see that there have been just over 22,000 page
views. What began as baby steps has definitely become part of a larger goal.
Thank you for being part of it, and my very best wishes to all of you over the
holiday season.
Soldiers Beach looks so peaceful. Thank you for writing, Take Baby Steps, which applies to all life, made me think.
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