Welcome to White Cane Connections.

My name is Sue Boman. Yes, that’s me in the picture posted here. I have called this blog White Cane Connections because I am one of the many people who use a white cane. I began this blog because I wanted to write about a project I undertook in 2012. The plan was to complete a series of walks using my white cane. Between March and September, I walked in 82 different locations across Canada. So, the blog begins by telling of my experiences and the many people I met along the way.

While this particular journey has now been completed, I find that I still have much to write about. I am continuing to make new white cane connections, and so for the time being I will continue to add regular posts to this blog. I am hoping that you will be a partner in the journey.

Sue


Tuesday, 22 December 2015

December 22 - Baby Steps



In the Christian Church, the messages leading up to Christmas are those of peace, hope, joy and love. I wish all of those to you. I would also like to wish you a message of a different kind for the New Year. I know that making New Year’s resolutions is not everyone’s cup of tea, but in my mind it is a good spot on the time line to set about setting some personal goals.

The other day I was chatting with my friend, Norma. We talked about how difficult it is to maintain self-confidence when challenges seem to be overwhelming. Of course, we were speaking of decreasing sight, but the same holds true for other challenges as well – physical and emotional. This past year hasn’t been an easy one for me and I’m afraid that I have slipped away from some things that previously I used to accomplish independently. I am very fortunate to have had Lyle by my side to boost me through these darker spells. Now, I need to once again build up my confidence and I know that the best way for me to do this is by taking baby steps. I need to set some personal goals and chip away at them.

This is what I wish for each of you. I am actually writing this on one of the best days of the year – December 21. Yes, it is mid-winter but it is also the shortest day of the year and from here on things can only get better and brighter. The days are going to be longer, but at first this will only be in very tiny increments. We won’t see big changes yet. That is also the way it might be for your personal goals. Tomorrow you might walk to the end of the block without a guide but next month you might be taking a stroll around the neighbourhood. If today you might need assistance to catch the bus or train downtown, by June you could possibly be travelling alone. 

It is up to each one of us to improve the quality of our lives by taking those baby steps forward and reaching towards the larger goal. I would love to hear how you are doing. If you find it too hard to comment on this blog, you can always let me know by email.


As a side note – when I first started writing on this blog, I wasn’t sure if anyone would read it. That was back in 2012. Now as we approach 2016, I see that there have been just over 22,000 page views. What began as baby steps has definitely become part of a larger goal. Thank you for being part of it, and my very best wishes to all of you over the holiday season.

1 comment:

  1. Soldiers Beach looks so peaceful. Thank you for writing, Take Baby Steps, which applies to all life, made me think.

    Dorothy

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