It is very tempting to decline invitations
to social events when a person’s confidence is compromised. Sometimes, it is
easier to say “no” rather than to step out of one’s comfort zone. When opportunities to social events and
activities come my way, I do try to take
advantage of them.
In unfamiliar surroundings, I find it
helpful to either use my white cane or wear my small badge that identifies me
as someone with low vision. These items let others know that there is a reason
for hesitations or possible confusion on my part. For instance, I do find it
difficult to enter a darkened room and find an empty chair. It is tricky to
help myself at a buffet meal. My constant anxiety in unfamiliar places is
finding the location of the women’s restroom. My cane or ID badge are usually
sufficient to alert others around me that I might need just a bit of help with
these things.
Still, in spite of some underlying anxiety,
I do try to put nervousness aside and take hold of opportunities that come my
way. From past experience, it has always been worth the effort.
There is a picture with this post. A couple
of weeks ago, George invited us to an entertainment event at his senior’s
lodge. The picture is of an Elvis impersonator perched beside me. I know that
last week I wrote about dressing up at Halloween. I guess that some of us don’t
outgrow the dressing up urge. The Elvis impersonator had an Elvis hairstyle and
makeup and wore a classy red jacket and shiny red and black shoes. As well as
singing the part, he both acted and dressed like Elvis. Thanks to George for
the invitation.
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