It is hard to think about and to plan for
special celebrations in this time of COVID 19. For instance, what did you do to
celebrate Thanksgiving? Some people were very creative in the way in which they
chose to celebrate and still stay within the safety and health guidelines. I
know of a family who had a wiener roast and picnic in the park. One of our
neighbours did a zoom call timing it with the eating of their Thanksgiving
turkey. I am thankful that many people
chose to forgo the usual large family gatherings in their efforts to avoid
transmission of the virus.
This Thanksgiving, Lyle and I were
fortunate in that we were able to celebrate with our Calgary family. Even this
required some forethought and planning and we were also fortunate in that the
weather cooperated with our plans. Lyle and I moved out to our motor home and
camped in our driveway. The Calgary family stayed in the house. We had coffee outside
in the morning sunshine and walked or drove in two separate cars to the local
playground during the day.
Then late on Saturday afternoon, our
wonderful son-in-law took over in the kitchen to prepare an amazing
Thanksgiving meal. Lyle set out two tables on our back deck so that our two households could eat while still
maintaining our physical distance. It was definitely cool but we wore our
jackets and the wind had died down. We have certainly celebrated warmer
Thanksgiving weekends in the past but given our current global situation, we
feel that we did very well to have this special family time – together but apart!
Thanksgiving wasn’t only about eating
turkey. Mostly it was the time we spent together and that was basically outside.
There is a picture with this post. It is of our granddaughter climbing the
branches of a large tree by the local walking trail. Lyle is keeping an eye on
Lexi and I am sitting at a picnic bench in the background. The tree is a great
favourite with the children who use the walking trail.
Lyle and I are already thinking about
Christmas. Yes, I know that it is still just over two months away but this year,
2020, we need to make a plan. This is what we have come up with.
If we all stay well, and there are no
further restrictions to travel, the Calgary family will come again. Obviously Lyle
and I won’t be staying in our motor home in the driveway so we are planning
that we can all stay in the house. To accomplish this, both families will isolate
for a two week period before Christmas. This will require some organizing. All our
shopping for groceries and any other items will need to be done ahead of time.
There won’t be any little social get togethers with friends during the
pre-Christmas season. We might think of other precautions before December but
in the meantime, this gives us all something to think about and to look forward
to.
Every so often I feel sad that family visits
can’t be as they used to be. When these waves of sadness come over me, I try to
think ahead to the next family holiday celebration and of how I might be able
to make it a memorable and happy occasion. I have always been a bit of a plan
maker and if ever there was a time for optimistic forethought and planning,
this is the year for it.