Welcome to White Cane Connections.

My name is Sue Boman. Yes, that’s me in the picture posted here. I have called this blog White Cane Connections because I am one of the many people who use a white cane. I began this blog because I wanted to write about a project I undertook in 2012. The plan was to complete a series of walks using my white cane. Between March and September, I walked in 82 different locations across Canada. So, the blog begins by telling of my experiences and the many people I met along the way.

While this particular journey has now been completed, I find that I still have much to write about. I am continuing to make new white cane connections, and so for the time being I will continue to add regular posts to this blog. I am hoping that you will be a partner in the journey.

Sue


Monday, 10 November 2025

November 10 - Good Friends

Old friends are like diamonds -
Treasures and rare.

Those two lines are from a poem I know.  I was recalling these when Lyle and I reconnected with an old friend.  We met John nearly thirty years ago when he came to Canada as in Australian exchange teacher.  What a great year that was as we watched John exploring and enjoying the vagaries  of his first cold Alberta winter.

When John returned to Australia we kept in touch.  We stayed in sporadic contact when he moved to Hong Kong.  In fact, our son even flew to Hong Kong and spent a week with John.  From there, we almost lost touch as we went our separate ways - but the best thing about really good friends is that you can pick up again at any time.  That’s what happened this past week when Lyle and I finally made it to Hong Kong.

Our stay in the city was brief but John made it memorable.  In spite of his own busy schedule as an artist and teacher, he made time for us.  He opened his heart and showed us a glimpse of this bustling city.  It was if the intervening years hadn’t existed.  That’s what it is like to be “good friends” with someone.

Now, because I am writing this post to White Cane Connections, I want to add in addition to being an excellent tourist guide, John was also an excellent sighted guide.  He seemed to know by instinct not to push me or try to steer me.  Instead he allowed me to hold his arm as he led the way.  He alerted me to the beginnings of steps and escalators, of which there were many, and guided me around obstacles on the footpath, of which there also seemed to be many.

John, thanks for your generosity, your hospitality, and for being such a good friend.

There is a picture with this post of Lyle, John, and myself. I am holding my white cane.
 
Lyle, Sue, and John

 





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